Wednesday, May 28, 2014

And then there was strep...

Last Wednesday, we had a great play date with a friend.  We've been having a great time getting together.  Wyatt and her boy seem to have a great time while Charlie tags along.  Her little girl spends most of the time observing the boys and their - what I assume she interprets as - ridiculous behavior.  She's adorable.  Fun times had by all.

Later that evening, my friend texted asking if Wyatt seemed to be feeling ok.  Apparently her boy was feeling a bit puny.  I said Wyatt was doing just fine.

Shortly after, I received another text. "Oh my goodness he just threw up."

My heart stopped.

I have an unbelievable stomach sickness paranoia.  Being a mom was probably the worst field I could get into.

Luckily, the boy was only sick once but the next day he did have a fever.  At their check-up, the doctor just figured it was a virus.  Later that night, the strep test came back positive.

I googled.  It said symptoms usually appear 2-5 days after exposure.  We made it to day 4 and 5 and I thought, "FREEEEEEE."

False.

Wyatt started feeling very warm.  Fever. 101.  He said his mouth hurt. 

Blasphemy.

The next day, he only had a little fever and didn't complain about his mouth/throat much.  I decided to take him into the doctor anyway since we had been exposed.  Wyatt has had strep one other time and I didn't even realize he was sick.  I took him to the doctor because he had a little rash on his face.  The doctor thought his throat looked red so she swabbed him.  Positive.  I couldn't believe it.

Charlie was along for the ride at the doctor - he had a slight fever the same day as Wyatt's fever but acted pretty normal.  Teeth....?  WE NEED MORE TEETH.

The doctor examined both children while I was sweating through my shirt.  Doctor's appointments with two somewhat crazy somewhat sick kids is torturous.


Wyatt's throat was red along with one ear.  Charlie looked perfectly fine.

Strep test for Wyatt - he enjoyed that.  5 minutes later - the nurse walked in the room with the results.  Positive.  Seconds later, Wyatt was standing on a chair and sneezed all over me, twice.  Classic.

This is what Wyatt looks like with strep.

The doctor decided since Charlie was maybe sensitive to amoxicillin that we shouldn't assume he had strep also.  Monitor Charlie and bring him in for testing if he develops a fever, cough or other symptoms.

That night, Charlie developed a fever.  100.

The next morning, Charlie woke up and was on fire.  102.


Into the doctor we go.  I was looking so forward to having this boy strep tested.  :| 

5 minutes later - the nurse informed us the test was "blatantly positive". 

Believe it or not, I was thrilled to find out it was positive.  That way, at least I know what's wrong with Charlie.  If it would have been negative then I'd be continuing on with my wondering germ paranoia.

Since the amoxicillin debacle just a short time ago, the doctor put Charlie on azithromycin.  I'm excited about that - we only have to give Charlie medicine once a day for 5 days.  Since all of our crazy doctor experiences, Charlie seems to have developed a distrust for me.  He refuses to take medicine from me.  But when Seth gives it to him, he sits right down and opens wide.  Stink pot....

I have been in touch with my dear friend who started this little plague... ;)  Since then, her little girl has also tested positive for strep.  Don't worry friend, like I said, I'm sure this is not the last time our kids get each other sick....

My friend said it best, "We can start a strep club."

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Our Tiny House

Five years ago, I moved into the bachelor pad that served as a place for Seth to rest his bones.  That was about it.  There was only baseboard heating - functional in only a couple of rooms, no air conditioning except for a window unit in the bedroom.  He considered the mice that roamed the kitchen and back porch friends.  ..........

I never would have imagined that bachelor pad would feel as much like a home as it does to me now.  It is still tiny.  It still has zero storage.  I still get mad every time my silverware drawer gets jammed when I try to close it....

But, it's our little home.  Seth proposed in the middle of the living room.  We brought Wyatt and then Charlie home here.  We decided to be a family here and now here we are - family.

I have a pretty steady love/hate relationship with this house.  I look around at the clutter that piles up in all corners of the house because I don't have a closet or drawer to stick something in and I loathe the place.  Then I see all of the personality we have added to the house and how cute it is on the outside and I fall in love with it again.

I'm certain this is not our forever house - but I am trying to always feel grateful for this humble little home that is building our family.  We have what we need here - rooms that our boys are comfortable in with comfy beds to rest their heads (nap time in progress here).  We have room for our big dining room table - room for the boys to run through the house and drive Seth and I crazy because we can't get away from the noise... We have what we need.

We had an opportunity present itself to us this winter, to move into a much larger house in town.  We went to see the house - and we were all in love.  I was painting rooms and moving furniture in as we viewed the house.  I was sold.

Then, one day, I came home from the doctor to find Seth outside with both of the boys playing.  It was one of the first nice days of the year - showing winter wasn't going to last forever.  I got home and Seth and I stayed outside chatting while the boys roamed the outside playing. 

The day we decided to stay.

This moment made the decision for us - the beautiful, spacious home in town wasn't for us.  It wasn't here - on our farm.  If I could pick that house up and set it down out here, I would in a heartbeat.  Deciding against moving into that house was one of the harder decisions I've made.  Finally, I could see a future with storage and an office and room for the kids to get away from us and us away from the kids and birthday parties in the basement and a fireplace and an amazing pantry and everything I could want.  But it wasn't here, where we can come out to pester Seth while he's working in the shed and then just run back into the house for snacks or meals or diaper changes. 

I still picture us in that house.  I would have been very sad leaving this home but I know we would have built the new place into our home. 

One day, we will have our forever home.  I'm not sure where it will be.  I have an idea of what it would look like.  I know it will have closets - several.  It's fun to dream about it and build it in my head.  I need to remember to have patience and know that the opportunity will present itself to us at some point.  For now, I will try to remember to be grateful for this sweet little home, that I love and hate.  I know it will be hard to leave.

Faith in God includes faith in His timing.

M says Mmmm

I stay at home with my boys, so I'd like to be able to say that I spend a great deal of time sitting down teaching the boys letters and numbers and all sorts of beneficial information.

Guess what... I don't.  The way life seems to work is I spend the day trying to keep the house from becoming one large stock pile of dirty dishes, laundry and toys - I feed these two boys literally all day long - I try to separate the wrestling matches that are already happening (I had NO idea that a 3 year old and 1 year old would already wrestle...?!) - I do read books and plays toys for as long as I can stand - I attempt to keep caught up on books for the farm, house and church - I try to get a workout at some point - I try to stay sane. 

Where am I going with this...?  Amazingly enough, I did manage to teach Wyatt his letter sounds at, what I consider, a really impressive age - just over two years old. 

Guess what... That's a lie.  I wish I could say that I taught Wyatt his letter sounds.  Unfortunately, I owe all credit to this magnificent little movie that we received from the mother of one of my best college friends.

 
 
Leap Frog Letter Factory.  This is amazing.  Wyatt was always so intrigued by the movie and I never paid much attention to it but would hear it in the background. Then, to my surprise, one day I was changing his diaper and he pointed to the word sign above his changing table and started making these noises.  I thought, 'What in the world is this kid talking about!?'  Until I realized, he was pointing at a "C" and saying "kuh, kuh". 
 
This movie is spectacular.  I would recommend it to all of you mothers out there.  It'll teach your kids the letters and their sounds in no time.  I really think Wyatt picked them up in just around a week...  Then you can tell all of your friends what a spectacularly attentive mother you are and that you taught your kid their letters and sounds in a matter of days.
 
Buy it.  It's on sale at Amazon right now. Leap Frog Letter Factory. Buy it.

Saturday, May 17, 2014

Charlie and the Hives

I've mentioned Charlie has the rhythm - he's my dancer.  Maybe he'll be a musician and have a group known as Charlie and the Hives. 

Maybe not.

I wanted to share pictures of my poor little boy after dealing with what was first thought to be an amoxicillin allergy and eventually diagnosed as Serum Sickness.  Maybe someone will someday have a similar experience, though I pray you don't. 

Thursday morning - initial reaction.

Thursday morning at the doctor.

Thursday after lunch.




 
Thursday after afternoon nap.

Thursday evening.

Friday morning.

 
Friday morning.
 



Friday after morning nap.


At the hospital.

Quick snooze at the hospital.


Suckers at the hospital.  Not us, the candy in Charlie's mouth.

When it comes down to it, you let your kid waste $2 worth of wipes if it makes them happy.


Looking so much better Saturday morning.

Not much redness, just some purple and dusky areas.


Major improvement after only one round of meds.

 
This was quite an experience and I'm so relieved it wasn't anymore serious.  Welcome back, Charlie!
 

Thursday, May 15, 2014

Charlie and Amoxicillin: Our Experience

Let me start by saying - this may be lengthy.  This may seem scatter-brained and a hodge-podge, collection of thoughts.  However, this is the third time I've sat down to write and update this particular post.  Each time with different information.  So friends, I present to you, my experiences with Charlie and Amoxicillin.

Wednesday evening Charlie was very fussy... I figured maybe we were dealing with some teeth since the little one only has 7 - he's due for a few chompers.  I was lucky enough to get a few hours out of the house to go see a movie, The Other Woman, hysterical.  Exactly what I needed.  I'd like to go to another movie right now.  I probably only see one movie every two years...

Seth took care of the boys and mentioned that Charlie's belly was covered with several red spots.  Charlie has somewhat sensitive skin so I didn't think much of it.  When Charlie woke up this morning, I realized his eye was very swollen, he had several red spots on his face, and his trunk was almost entirely red. 


Sigh. Now what...

Our doctor's office opens at 7 on Thursdays and we were able to get in by 8.  I was expecting to hear that Charlie's bronchiolitis was just exiting his body through the form of a viral rash.  I think I would have preferred that.

The doctor explained that these were hives and most likely caused by the amoxicillin Charlie is taking for his ear infections.  I never imagined the amoxicillin would be the problem, since Charlie has been on it before.  The doctor explained that often if someone will be allergic to something they won't develop the allergy until after the initial exposure.  So first round of amoxicillin = exposure.  Second round = highly attractive and uncomfortable red hives covering most of Mr. Charlie.

We will be discontinuing the use of amoxicillin and adding a nice little 1/4 tsp. dose of Benadryl for Mr. Charlie.  Maybe I can at least get some really good naps out of this Benadryl haze Charlie might be experiencing.



Note: Charlie still doesn't like doctors.


I made a quick stop at the dollar store on my way home to pick up some additional supplies and decided to buy Charlie a little ball he had been eyeing.  On the way home, it served as a snack.  Good news:  None of the ball was actually ingested.

Charlie took an excellent nap (thanks, Benadryl?) but woke up looking so much worse.  He could hardly see out of his right eye and several of the hives on his belly and turned from red to purple.  I had to go pick up Annie from the groomer so loaded the boys up and called the doctor on the way.  Fortunately, Charlie wasn't having any breathing or swallowing issues, so we just needed to continue Benadryl.  The doctor instructed that if Charlie was worse in the morning, we could come in for a steroid injection. 


Unbelievably, Charlie slept all night.  Though I woke up a few times to make sure he was still breathing... He woke up around 6:30 Friday morning still wearing his lovely amoxicillin mask.  This boy doesn't look like my child.  He's still beautiful, but in a pitiful way.  He's acting almost completely normal, maybe just a little mellow (again, thanks, Benadryl...?).



Charlie seems pretty comfortable for the most part.  He doesn't seem to acknowledge any of his hives until he gets sleepy and then he starts itching around.

I'm very hopeful that we will have a good day with several doses of Benadryl and hopefully start looking a little more normal by tomorrow.  I've read that these hives can start to blister, so I'm praying that sweet Charles doesn't have to experience that. 


Charlie went down for a normal nap Friday morning and woke up seeming very irritable.  He was not looking good.  His body was almost entirely covered in these spots and most were purple with a red ring on the outside.  Still, he wasn't having breathing trouble or swallowing trouble, but now seemed uncomfortable.  I decided to call our doctor.  They got me in immediately, saying that they were told that if I called, to get me in immediately.  20 minutes later we walked right into an exam room.

At the doctor's office, we baffled most nurses.  They could not believe these hives were purple and were not looking very reassured.  I'm amazed I kept my composure.  We saw our doctor and he also seemed concerned.  He said "Hives don't turn purple".  He put a call into the dermatologist to do some checking.  Shortly after, he returned to the room saying he had left a message for the dermatologist but in the mean time, we probably need to head on to Kansas City or Columbia to the hospital.  He believed we might be dealing with Stevens Johnson syndrome - which is a severe reaction to antibiotics that apparently means the skin is essentially burning, and can start to slough off.  What..... Charlie's skin might start to come off....?  He told me we were looking at at least one night, maybe two, in the hospital.

I cried most of the way home as I shared the news with immediate family members.  Of course, I had to go home because I forgot my PURSE on the way to the doctor in the first place.  I went home, packed a few things for Charlie and myself, Seth took over driving, Papa Jimmie picked up Wyatt, and off we went to Columbia.

We arrived at the hospital around 1 p.m. and finally a little before 2 p.m. were seen by 3 doctors who listened intently to our week long ordeal, beginning with the doctor's appointment last Thursday and ear infection diagnosis.  The ordered blood work and several labs and informed us we would be seeing another dermatologist at some point. 


The initial exam was NOT pretty.  And I didn't think it would be pretty.  I held Charlie as tight as I could while they checked his ears and looked for sores in his mouth.  Thankfully, there were no sores in his mouth.  The dermatologist was starting to rule out Stevens Johnson syndrome - as that apparently is fairly involved in the mouth and other mucous membranes.  The dermatologist was then leaning towards Serum Sickness or Erythema Multiforme -the latter being the more serious condition.  I actually now believe that Erythema Multiforme and Stevens Johnson may be somewhat related.  I won't get too technical - because I'm not a doctor.  I only know what I've heard and googled.  On we go.

Around 3:45 p.m., another dermatologist came in and begin to really lean towards Serum Sickness.  She explained the usually treat Serum Sickness as outpatient.  Our mood began to perk.  It continued to perk and she was the only doctor that Charlie did not mind having in the room.  He let her look at his back and take pictures.  I flipped him over so she could see his stomach and she took pictures.  While he was laying on my lap, he unhooked his diaper and pulled his little Mr. Charlie out - and then began chitchatting with the doctor.  This moment in time was hilarious and I will remember for the rest of my life, how Charlie finally didn't mind having a doctor in the room, but probably because he made himself comfortable and pulled his business out to show her and strike up a conversation... Unbelievable.


Things were looking up.  She had mentioned Outpatient.  She was going to send one more doctor in to confirm her suspicions about Charlie.  In the meantime, she mentioned there would likely be no need for an IV.  Thank GOODNESS the nurses hadn't jumped right on this.  I was so worried about how Charlie would handle the procedure and then having the IV right there for him to fuss with and try to yank out! 

A short 20 minutes later, a male doctor with the most beautiful hair (!! I mean, gorgeous hair, Seth agreed) came in and before the door had even shut behind him, he said, "That is Serum Sickness.  No doubt." 

Serum sickness is defined as an immune-mediated rash that is triggered by a viral infection and antibiotic use.  Now, if you can remember WAY back up to the top of this post, I mentioned I was expecting to hear that Charlie's rash was just the virus escaping his body.  I even informed a friend of mine, after his rash seemed much worse than I imagined from an antibiotic allergy, that what if this was a double whammy of a viral rash AND antibiotic allergy.  Maybe I need to go back to school... because I. am. a genius. Totally kidding.  Maybe only kind of kidding.  Mother's intuition...? 

We spoke at length about this and the doctor informed us that Charlie might not even actually have an allergy to amoxicillin.  Yes, right now he has a sensitivity, but if there's some life threatening situation that Charlie encounters, we are most likely safe to give him amoxicillin.  In fact, later in his life he might not have any trouble with it at all.  This was just as he said, a combo of situations that overwhelmed Charlie's immune system and is exiting his body in this beautiful rash.  That's what the doctor called it, beautiful.  I don't know about beautiful but it is definitely impressive to behold.

He said we could go home.  He said we didn't need blood work.  He said this was a beautifully well behaved condition that he would not be concerned about at all.  He prescribed the antihistamine hydroxyzine and said it would knock Charlie out - and make him really thirsty.  We were going home.

Bless his beautiful heart.

We arrived home shortly before 7 that evening.  Wyatt arrived home shortly after.  We were all back where we needed to be.  We dosed Charlie up, he passed out, and didn't move but once that night, to roll from his back to his belly.  He awoke at 7:30 Saturday morning looking much more like our dear little Charlie.  His rash looked significantly better.  Charlie is back.  His feet are still fairly swollen - they started to swell as soon as we got to the hospital.  I really believe that in this whole rash roller coaster, our arrival at the hospital was the peak of the worst of the symptoms.  Down we go and I'm ready to jump off this carnival ride.

Time for life to settle down a little.  And by settle down - I mean as settle as it can possibly get when you're entering summer with a three year old and one year old.  Time to get back to good.  Days playing outside for the entire morning, lunch under the big shade tree in the back yard, afternoons splashing in the baby pool.  Sign me up.  I'm there.

Philippians 4:6 - Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

Annie Dog


Another eventful morning at our house today.  Amidst a developing amoxicillin allergy for Mr. Charlie, Annie needed to be taken to the groomer for her day of beauty. 

Some of you may be aware of the scary troubles I've had with my sweet orphan Annie dog lately.  She was having some tremors about a month ago and the vet was concluding that she likely had some neurological issue.  He treated her over the weekend and my Annie was back.  Until the meds wore off and Annie began the same, lethargic behavior.  We had her treated with a steroid again and eventually she perked back up.

In the meantime, I began speaking with one of my friends about Annie and my current use of essential oils.  I've really enjoyed using essential oils, mostly for myself, sometimes for my kids. My friend sent me a link to an article that talked about the dangers of essential oils and pets, specifically tea tree oil (which I use a lot).  I really didn't think this would be an issue because I never used the oils on Annie and she didn't really have access to them.  Or so I thought.

When I leave Annie alone at the house, I shut her into my bathroom so she won't have an anxiety attack and chupe on the living room carpet like she so often used to do.... Then I realized, I use these oils in my bathroom... Sometimes there may or may not be a rogue cotton ball that missed the trash can.  Maybe, this little dog is sniffing tea tree laced cotton balls....!

So I decided to start shutting Annie into the boys' bathroom when I leave the house.

Maybe I'm crazy, but Annie seems to be doing SO much better.  She's put back on the weight that she had lost.  She hasn't had any tremor episodes.  She appears to be good ole Annie dog. 

I might owe Annie's life to the friend who brought this to my attention.  You know who you are... :) 

So FYI friends.  If you use or want to start using essential oils and you have pets, use caution.  They can be very dangerous for those animals and their powerful sniffers.

http://m.naturalnews.com/news/022909_pet_health_essential_oils.html

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Wyatt James: An Update

I knew going into parenting that I would love my children.  I made them... They are little pieces of my heart.. Surely, I'm going to love them.  Then they both showed up and I still can't believe how much I love them when I look at them.

This boy...

 
 

This boy baffles my mind.  I don't know how in the world he got so smart.  He speaks so clearly.  He rationalizes things.  He analyzes things.  He knows more about what's going on with the farm and seed operation than I can fathom.  He knows what truck Daddy is in and what piece of equipment he's moving where to do what to which field.  He's a worker man.  He wants to wear his pliers and work boots.  He doesn't often want to just play.  He often says he can't play because he has to work.  He's three.



Wyatt doesn't spend much time in the day being silly.  If I tell him something ridiculous to try and get a rise out of him, he answers back in a no-nonsense, "No, Mom...". 

Smart and hardworking.  Serious and attentive.  But I really try to help him shake some of that seriousness off and just be a goof.  I am a goofball. Charlie must be my baby, because Charlie is a goofball.  I want Wyatt to have a little more of this lighthearted 'let's dance and make someone laugh or smile' to even him out.  I don't want him to be too serious or worry too much about what's going on around him.



In my early blog days, I often would interview Wyatt.  That's probably the best way to take a sneak peak into this little, impressive, three year old brain.  So, here's Wyatt.

What's you name? 
-Wyatt Tyre
What's your favorite color?
-Red! Because I just love it.
What's your favorite toy?
-Hmmm.  Buster.  Buster the power crane. Because I just love him.
What's your favorite TV show?
-Peep and the Big Wide World. I thought you were just going to ask me a few questions...
Well can I ask you a few more questions? 
-Yeah, like what?
What do you want to be when you grow up?
-A farmer!  Because I just love to.  I'm going to drive tractors and take care of cows.
What's your favorite piece of equipment?
-A big tractor with a mulch finisher hooked onto it.
Who's your brother?
-Charlie.
Do you like Charlie?
Yes, I like Charlie, most of the time.
What's your favorite animal?
-A bull.  And a kitty cat. 
What's your favorite food?
-Macky!  And rice and beans!
Who are you friends?
-Avery. Adam. Papa. Andrew. Daddy.
What's your favorite thing to do outside?
-Hmmm.  Play in my Robbie Toys JCB Backhoe Loco.
Do you have anything else you'd like to say to me?
-Thank you, Mom. Can I give you a kiss? Mom, I'm going to measure how much you weigh... You weight forty sixteen.  That's a lot.


Thanks, Son.  You're the best. :)

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Laundry laundry everywhere.

Found this old gem saved in my blogger... Might as well give it some time to shine.  It's also nice to remember what the top of my dryer looks like... I haven't seen the top since the war began.

Hey remember that time I wrote about my toilet overflowing... It wasn't long ago...

Add to that dirty chaos the fact that my washer crapped out on me last week.....

Realizing fixing the washer would cost more than it is worth, a wonderful small town company made us an offer we couldn't refuse and...... 

Guadalajaraaaaa!

Welcome this lovely new set to our home. The old pair served us very well and served my parents very well before that...

I look forward to loads of clean clothes.   ..........  Well, not really. I am excited to be able to wash again. Though I'm not thrilled that the first thing I have to wash is dirty toilet water towels.........